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Aug 07 , 2017
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一個丈夫對心愛妻子的告白!關於身材這件事,妳比妳自己想像得更美

文/Sasha  來源/Instagram@tripp 、@sassyredlipstick
  • 一個丈夫對心愛妻子的告白!關於身材這件事,妳比妳自己想像得更美
  • 一個丈夫對心愛妻子的告白!關於身材這件事,妳比妳自己想像得更美
  • 一個丈夫對心愛妻子的告白!關於身材這件事,妳比妳自己想像得更美
  • 一個丈夫對心愛妻子的告白!關於身材這件事,妳比妳自己想像得更美
  • 一個丈夫對心愛妻子的告白!關於身材這件事,妳比妳自己想像得更美
  • 一個丈夫對心愛妻子的告白!關於身材這件事,妳比妳自己想像得更美

現今這社會,很多女生都追求苗條的身材,甚至努力瘦身希望能達到超模的標準才覺得自己稱的上「漂亮」。關於身材這件事,國外一名作家Robbie Tripp發表了一篇公開信,寫給他身形豐腴、又心愛的妻子。淺白的話語,暖心的道出真愛是什麼,也讓人重新思考美的定義。


與妻子Sarah透過網路認識,已結婚3年多的Robbie Tripp在自己的IG上寫下這些話。

 

|| I love this woman and her curvy body. As a teenager, I was often teased by my friends for my attraction to girls on the thicker side, ones who were shorter and curvier, girls that the average (basic) bro might refer to as "chubby" or even "fat." Then, as I became a man and started to educate myself on issues such as feminism and how the media marginalizes women by portraying a very narrow and very specific standard of beauty (thin, tall, lean) I realized how many men have bought into that lie. For me, there is nothing sexier than this woman right here: thick thighs, big booty, cute little side roll, etc. Her shape and size won't be the one featured on the cover of Cosmopolitan but it's the one featured in my life and in my heart. There's nothing sexier to me than a woman who is both curvy and confident; this gorgeous girl I married fills out every inch of her jeans and is still the most beautiful one in the room. Guys, rethink what society has told you that you should desire. A real woman is not a porn star or a bikini mannequin or a movie character. She's real. She has beautiful stretch marks on her hips and cute little dimples on her booty. Girls, don't ever fool yourself by thinking you have to fit a certain mold to be loved and appreciated. There is a guy out there who is going to celebrate you for exactly who you are, someone who will love you like I love my Sarah. || photo cred: @kaileehjudd

ROBBIE TRIPP™(@tripp)分享的貼文 於 張貼

「我愛這個女人,也愛她的曲線。當我還是青少年時,我常因為我較喜歡個頭小、有曲線的女生而被朋友們取笑,因為在他們眼裡,那種女生通常被定義為『肉肉的』或甚至是『肥胖』。

後來我成為一個男人,我開始教育自己關於女性的議題,並關注媒體是如何塑造出只有瘦、高、苗條這些要件,才是美的唯一定義,而又有多少男人掉入了這樣的圈套。對我而言,沒有任何人比我眼前這個女人更性感:她有厚實的大腿、豐滿的臀部、美妙的側影。她的身型與size可能無法登上Cosmopolitan雜誌封面,但卻佔據了我的生命與我的心。對我來說,一個同時具有曲線、又充滿自信的女人是世上最性感的尤物,這個與我結伴一生的女孩穿起牛仔褲是那樣的緊實,但她依然那麼美艷動人。

男人們,好好思考這個社會如何不知不覺影響了你內心真正渴望的。一個真實的女人不是什麼A片女星、或比基尼人形model,或電影角色。她是真實的。她臀部會有美麗的肌肉紋理和可愛的小凹陷。女孩們,也別再愚蠢的相信妳必須變成任何樣子才值得被愛或被欣賞。世界上某個地方,正有個男人等著愛上原原本本的妳,為妳之所以是妳而感到歡欣鼓舞,然後會深深愛上妳,就像我愛我的Sarah一樣。」

正如Robbie所說,身形Size比一般模特兒大的Sarah也許不符合社會定義的美,但充滿自信的她,不但充滿魅力、更是一位成功的時尚部落客。女孩們,永遠都要對自己有自信,妳其實比妳自己想像得更美。

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